"Common Sense"

Hello, fellow bloggers*. There are a few things that I just don't understand, because "common sense" should be "common". Why is it that, when you try to tell a guy that your not interested in them, they try over and over again to talk to you? Why don't people get the point that your not interested in them? It seems like the same guys try year after year,and don't give up. For the life of me, I just don't understand it. When it comes to relationships, why is it that guys believe when they "own cars" and wear "nice clothes", that it will always attract a female? As for me, and I am sure ladies that you agree as well, what happen to being a gentleman? I do not want to be with a stuck up, money fiend, broke man that spends all his money on gucci or Prada's.I want a man that has dignity, has an intelligent mind, with a motivation to excel above the rest, with a job and has a good head on his shoulders.I don't want to sound like I can't stand men that are "flashy",but I am saying that there is always a better chance with a woman if you show her you can make her laugh or listen to her goals and carry a decent conversation and no "small talk".  I know that when it comes to dating, it can be difficult. Whatever happened to personality and the small things that count?I am not saying that guys from the projects are no good. What I am saying is, even if you are from the projects, have some "class" and "respect" for yourself.I am so sick and tired of seeing young boys and grown men with their pants hanging off there butts! It is "NOT" attractive at all. It is always a "time" and "place" for everything. There is also another thing that bugs me alot. Why is it that if a woman or a young lady is not interested in a guy, and they say "no" to to giving up the digits, they want to call us names? What is the problem fellas? If the lady is not interested, why is that you can't accept rejection and move on? I hope someone can relate to what I am saying. I really do want to understand how the "mind of a man" works. I truly believe without a doubt, that women are from venus, and men are from mars. Why? because we do not think alike- "at all". I want to keep it short and sweet on this blog. I need some feedback and clarity on these issues. Please write your comments or response to this blog. I want to hear from you fellow bloggers and blogette's! Have a blessed day.*_*

                                                                                                                         Sincerely yours,
                                                                                                                   Ms. Inspirational Woman*

"Hope"

Who are you? Why does it seem like I am running out of breath and I'm loosing the race before i win? Hello, Blog followers, this is what happens inside our mind when chaos enters our "life".Confusion is one of the first forms of realizing your loosing yor mental state. You can't organize, can't think or concentrate. I look at it this way, when you have order, you can't loose your state of mind. When you plan ahead, it is good to have a layout of what you want to do. Even though it may not work out the way you planned, there is always a set and organized way of "getting things done" or "achieving your goals". I have come to realize as a  parent, and a young woman that it is sometimes hard to focus on  everything at a time. I have figured out that when things look "dim" or feel "uncomfortable", it is a test. We have choices in life and we choose everyday. Why feel afraid when you have not tried, or why feel down, if there are endless possiblities that are in front of you? For example, we fight for rights, we fight for our family, so don't give up or dont give in to the negativity. Think of it as, it is temporary. Start believing and have "faith" that no matter what, as long as you keep fighting, "you will make it". No victory is won easily, but as long as you keep on fighting when you want to give up, watch how God will work in your life. Hope is the term described as: to look forward to with desire and reasonable confidence. Without a shadow of a doubt, know that even in the recession, you will make it. Nothing is impossible, but when you feel all hope is gone, remember who you are fighting for, and remember who got your back. I know it is tough out there, ladies and gentleman, but we got to step out on "faith". "Hope" is realizing that no matter how it looks, I will press forward and expect positive results. Change the way you think and always think as there is more than one way to achieve a goal. Or, the old saying, "There is more than one way to skim a cat". I know, it's  pretty lame but I'm sure you understand what I am trying to say. Leave all of that negativity at the door and keep planning, praying, and going the extra mile because whatever it is you can't do, God can and give him the charge over your circumstance. Always meet him half way, do your part and watch God take care of the rest. In these days, I know it is better said, than done but we got to keep on moving. Please laugh, enjoy each day and even try to play a board game, it helps. Watch Kevin Hart stand up comedy specials, I bet you would laugh your butt off!!!!! On a serious note, I encourage everyone to "Hope for the best and prepare for the worst". I am here to uplift you, and in the midst of it, I am uplifted as I write this blog to you. I can't express how good it feels to be who I am. Why? you may ask. Well, because I have a family, friends and a great God who can do "anything". I am not trying to change your faith or beliefs,I just thought I'd share a little bit about me and hope you are inspired to get up and go try something new and change your attitude about living now because tomorrow is not guaranteed.I am all about change and creating a "new outlook on life". Despite the circumstances, I am blessed. I may not be the most wealthiest person, but I am blessed and you can't put a price on that. On that note, have a blessed weekend and stay enouraged. Try not to worry and look for ways to keep you happy. ^-^**

                                                                                                       
                                                                                                        Sincerely,
                                                                                                        
                                                                                                        Yours truly Ms. Inspirational woman